Ellen Marie Stelmar
Ellen Marie (Hajos) Stelmar, age 82, of Rockwall, Texas, passed away March 9, 2020. She was born Sept. 24, 1937, in the Bronx, New York, to Theodore Frank Hajos, Sr. and Helen (Begley) Hajos.
Ellen was a member of St. Michael the Archangel Catholic Church in Garland. She was a member of the National Council of Catholic Women, the Dallas Diocesan Council of Catholic Women, the Dallas Deanery Council of Catholic Women, Church Women United, Rockwall Friends of the Library, and Rockwall Newcomers.
Her presence will be deeply missed.
Ellen is survived by her loving husband of 59 years, Thomas Stelmar, Sr.; children, Stacy Stelmar-Cuzick and Thomas Stelmar, Jr. (Tracy); grandchildren, Sara Elizabeth Cuzick, Emily Marie Cuzick, Marissa Helen Cuzick, Thomas Edward Stelmar III and John William (Jack) Stelmar.
She was preceded in death by her parents; sister Mary Ellen Hajos; brother Theodore F. Hajos, Jr.; and her son-in-law: Floyd Dean Cuzick, Jr.
A gathering of family and friends and a rosary will take place on Friday, from 6 to 8 p.m., at Rest Haven Funeral Home-Rockwall location. Funeral services will be held at 10 a.m., on Saturday, March 14, 2020, at St. Michael the Archangel Catholic Church, 950 Trails Pkwy, Garland, TX, 75043, with a funeral reception to follow.
Published on March 10, 2020


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Gary Born
Mar 24, 2020
I am stunned. I had no idea Ellen had passed away. Ellen was always so gracious when I entered their home, primarily to visit Tom. I am truly at a loss for words. Tom and kids, I hurt for you. She was a supreme lady. I am also saddened that I only knew Ellen from her works at the church (OLOL) and being around to keep Tom Sr. in line.
Vaya con Dios Ellen.
Gary & Diana Born
Wanda and Robert Bravata
Mar 14, 2020
Our sincere condolences to the Stelmar Family. Our prayers are with you.
Jim and Carol Slater
Mar 12, 2020
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